You can either orgasm without ejaculating or you can ejaculate without orgasm.

Be honest ...

If you have experienced coming just few seconds after putting it in, you most likely didn't have very strong orgasm. This didn't really feel that good did it?

You probably even had stronger orgasm masturbating.

On the other hand if you last a little longer and managed to put good energy into the love making, then you most likely came with such a screaming orgasm that the whole world wa shaking.

You may or you may not have experienced these two kinds, but they are real.

"Premature Orgasm Is a Lousy Orgasm!"

There is no pleasure in just leaking out after few seconds of non love making.

But there is an other kind of climax that men who have mastered their ejaculation (many of them former premature ejaculators) can experienced. It's called dry orgasm.

Dry orgasm is when you have a mind blowing orgasm but there is not a drop of sperm spilled. And most of the time you can stay stiff inside of her and keep on going on until next orgasm.

Of course men who master this can choose if their orgasm is dry or not and most often with the last orgasm they will squirt a big load of sperm into their lady.

But the fascinating thing is that there is no necessary connection between orgasm and ejaculation.

"What Does This Tell Us About Premature Orgasm?"

This tells us that when you ejaculate quicker than you want to with almost no orgasm connected, you are really running away from something.

You are not ejaculating for the pleasure because there is very little pleasure in it. There would be way more pleasure in staying inside the hot wet vagina for a little longer. So maybe you are running away from the pleasure.

There are so many feelings connected to sex. There is so much shame, guilt, fear and anger often connected to this act that overwhelms us and makes the subconscious want to run away.

It's good to know about all these emotional stuff, but the main thing is to build our endurance and tolerance for staying in there and taking the tension and taking the pleasure.

If you want good guide for this, there is non better than one called The Ejaculation Master, written by Christian Gudnason, certified sex-therapist with years of experience working with men suffering from premature orgasm. No guide I've ever seen comes close.

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